Sunday 29 January 2012

…..Of Younger Chinese Girls

Dating between young girls and men who are more than a few years older than them is not a new phenomenon. But when pretty young girls happen to be Chinese, it never fails to raise eyebrows or send gossip mills into an overdrive. Friends and acquaintances pass judgements, “She is after his money”, “All he wants from her is sex”. But it is not true in all cases and if you have watched the movie ‘Autumn in New York’, you must have some idea what confusion, pain and angst an older man-younger woman relationship often entails and the beauty and wonder it goes through.

Many young Chinese girlsprefer to date and marry older men because they find younger men immature and irresponsible. Despite the fact that they are into serious dating most younger men develop cold feet when it comes to getting married. Many are not prepared for it financially and others are ready to give up their freedom as yet. In China, girls are supposed to get married and settle down once they reach 25. So any Chinese woman in the age group of 25-30 dating online is not looking for a casual date. She is looking for a man who is ready to make a commitment. So, if the guy is mature, financially stable, caring and ready to commit, his age is not a big issue.

All women love to be indulged and cosseted. Older boyfriends are often more tolerant, caring and forgiving than younger men. They are not only more generous lovers but also don’t mind splurging to fulfil the whims and fancies of their younger, prettier girlfriends.

Many young Chinese girls unconsciously seek older men to fill the void left by the absence of the fatherly figure either due to death or divorce. Though this theory has been dismissed by many, it still holds water. Moreover, since guys in their 40’s and 50’s have already “been there, done that” they are less likely to go astray and cheat on their wives. In fact, they do everything they can to keep them happy and satisfied.

lastly, love knows no barriers… country, language, religion or age!

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